Two men within two days apart recommended me or in another word advised me to be "Aggressive", or adopt such charecter, which I found it repulsive.
They said, it is helps to get what I want. I hate aggressiveness, I find it a negative attidude and feel its not femanine.
Generally men hate aggressive women, as they steel their dignety, for me been aggressive is been bully
My due respect to aggressive people, I may be wrong.