​مِنْ آَدَابِ

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​مِنْ آَدَابِ الْحُبِّ:
إِذَا أَحْبَبْتَ شَخْصَا فَاذْهَبْ إِلَيْهِ وَ قُلْ انَّكَ تُحِبُّهُ، إِلَا إِذَا كُنْتَ لَا تَعْنِيْ مَا تَقُوْلُ فِعْلَا ..
لِأَنَّهُ سَيَعْرِفُ الْحَقِيقِيَّةِ بِمُجَرَّدِ النَّظَرِ فِيْ عَيْنَيْكَ.

مِنْ آَدَابِ الْزَّوَاجِ:
تَزَوَّجَ مِنْ تُجِيْدُ الْمُحَادَثَةِ بِالْمَنْطِقِ فَعِنْدَمَا يَتَقَدَّمَ بِكَ الْعُمْرُ سَتَعْرِفُ أَهَمِّيَّةِ ذَلِكَ عِنْدَمَا يُصْبِحُ الْحَدِيْثِ مَعَ مَنْ تُحِبْ قِمّةُ أَوْلَوِيَاتِكْ وَ اهْتَمَاماتِكِ.

مِنْ آَدَابِ الْحَدِيْثِ:
عِنْدَمَا لَا تُرِيْدُ الْاجَابَةَ عَلَىَ سُؤَالِ فَابْتَسَمَ لِلْسَّائِلِ قَائِلا: هَلْ تَعْتَقِدُ انَّهُ فِعْلَا مِنَ الْمُهِمَّ انْ تَعْرِفُ ذَلِكَ؟!

مِنْ آَدَابِ الْمُعَامَلَةِ:
لَا تَحْكُمُ عَلَىَ شَخْصٍ مِنْ أَقْرِبَائِهِ فَقَطْ، فَالْانْسَانُ لَمْ يَخْتَرْ وَالِدَيْهِ فَمَا بَالُكَ بِأَقْرِبائِهُ.

مِنْ آَدَابِ الاعْتِذَارِ:
لَا تَتَرَدَّدُ فِيْ أَنْ تَتَأَسَّفِ لِمَنْ أَخْطَأْتُ فِيْ حَقِّهِ، وَ انْظُرْ لِعَيْنَيْهِ وَ انْتَ تَنْطِقَ كِلْمَةْ آَسَفُ لِيَقْرَأَهَا فِيْ عَيْنَيْكِ وَ هُوَ يَسْمَعْهَا بِأُذُنَيْهِ.

مِنْ آَدَابِ الْحِوَارْ:
فَكَّرَ كَثِيْرا، وَ اسْتَنْتِجْ طَوَيْلَا، وَ تَحْدِثَ قَلِيْلا، وَلَا تُهْمِلْ كُلِّ مَا تَسْمَعُهُ فَمَنْ الْمُؤَكَّدِ انَّكَ سَتَحْتَاجُهُ فِيْ الْمُسْتَقْبَلِ.

مِنْ آَدَابِ الْحَيَاةِ:
لَا تَسْخَرْ مَنْ الْآَخِرِينَ وَ أَحْلَامُهُمْ الْوَرْدِيَّةُ الْجَمِيْلَةُ خَاصَّةً مِنْ تَعْتَقِدُ أَنَّهُمْ أَقَلُّ مِنْكَ مَنْ الْبُسَطَاءِ الْطَّيِّبِينَ فَرُبَّمَا تَكُوْنَ مَنْزِلَةً خَادِمَتَكَ عِنْدَ الْلَّهِ اسْمِىِّ وَ أَرْفَعُ مِنْكَ وَ مِنْ كَثِيْرٍ مِنْ عَلْيَاءِ الْقَوْمَ وَ قَدْ تَحْظَىْ بِشَفَاعَتِهِمْ يَوْمَ الْقِيَامَةِ. وَلَا تُقَلِّلُ مِنْ شَأْنِ الْأَحْلَامِ فَالَدُّنْيَا بِدُوْنِهَا رِحْلَةَ جَافَّةِ وَمُمِلَّةً مُهِمَّا يَكُنْ الْوَاقِعِ جَمِيْلَا.

مِنْ آَدَابِ التَّوَاصُلِ:
انّ تُرْسِلُ هَذَا البُرَوَدكاسَتِ لِمَنْ تُحِبّ لِيَتِمَّ التَّوَاصُلِ دُوْنَمَا انْقِطَاعَ
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Man of knowledge

I came across an article criticizing Barack Obama for giving wrong facts to the Muslims about the first Iftar host in the White House; also the truth behind the 3rd President of USA Thomas Jefferson with Islam and Muslims.


"The first Muslim ambassador to the United States, from Tunisia, was hosted by President Jefferson, who arranged a sunset dinner for his guest because it was Ramadan —- making it the first known iftar at the White House, more than 200 years ago." - Remarks by the 44th President of USA at Iftar Dinner on August 13, 2010.


Based on the article, Thomas Jefferson is not the first one to host the Iftar in the White House, it was the 42nd President of USA, William J. Clinton aka Bill Clinton, who continued the ritual, others followed and the rest is history. Maybe Obama's team thought that no one will verify it, but thanks to the globalization and World Wide Web, people did the background check the story and found some flows. Also that Jefferson was against Islam and Muslims, which I won't go through this in detail, as I also need to research more about it.

At that moment, I wished my late father was here, to discuss with him about it, he was a man of knowledge in politics and history, a man who was such a humble and honest and above all, a gentleman.

My sister and my self realized we do follow our father's footstep in reading and doing researches to gaining general knowledge in different fields. We both like history, national geography and traveling, we also like to learn about other religions, cultures and societies. We both love sharing with others what we learned.

All that, made my late farther a unique man and so are his daughters and we are proud of it.
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Ramadhan kareem

Greetings to everyone for the holy month of Ramadhan. The month that Muslim purify their body and souls by fasting and praying to God.

Ramadhan is celebrated differently from one country to another, culture, ethnic and society.

The way I celebrated it while I was young is totally different now. Partly miss it, but I've created my own customs and glued in front of the TV to watch season X+1 of Baab Alhaarah or what ever drama is not part of it.

Enjoy the shahr alfadheel, and prayers to the souls who departed in this holy month and others too.
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A small Ramadhan gift

Presentation and creativity can attract people to like or hate something.

A small Ramadhan gift been rapped for you, open it then share it with others.

It is in Arabic but use Google Translator to translate to your language.

http://www.ramadan.ws <http://www.ramadan.ws/>
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Businesses in UAE and BlackBerry ban

Allot of Blackberry users in business are outraged for UAE regulator's decision for banning BlackBerry's services.

It seems most business are happy what BlackBerry gives them with product and service, its more of an idle that other products and services such as iPhone and others can't provide. The business are able to connect to the business' emails and clients round the clock, others get technical alerts and updates if their system is gone down or for example no cash in ATM for banking industry.

UAE and the others who want to ban the service are insecure and don't want to expose to the world.

Now USA planning to pass a law for individuals from royal families who are having legal issues related to human rights like UAE's president half brother, won't be able to enter USA soil and their current or valid legal pass will be revoked, so allot of royal families will have to find another destination for holiday.

The big question, will European countries follow USA's step, if the law is passed?
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Ignoring the fact

I am absolutely in denial for the past few months since I've known, don't blame me for that, I may once a kid, you may find it that I had no clue of what's going on, but I knew, and felt it.

I don't want to accept or remember that fact it happened and may happen again, death is part of our cycle, but knowing someone close to you is having the cancer, its not easy, I lost one and I can't loose another one.

I prefer not to open up the subject or talk or ask about it, I prefer to close the door and believe that the person is healthy, safe, and sound. Now people may understand how painful for my sibling and I, or others maybe saying, "They don't remember at all."

I avoid calling, scared to hear the bad news; 'Guilty', yes I am and I know I may one day regret it.

"Sorry about that, I'm not that strong."

Time is up for denial, I have to force my self to accept it, because I'll have to face it as soon they step in the plane and back home.
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Blackberry loosing 500K of clients at once

Its a dark history of technology for UAE regulator to pull off the plug from blackberry, the most secured and encrypted service in the world because of Research In Motion (RIM) not willing to give it an access to monitor the UAE subscribers' data for safety and security of undetected threats plus all blackberry data are managed and maintained by an off-shored organization and not RIM.

UAE made a bold move, challenging RIM to surrender to its terms, now KSA issued statement to block one service known as BlackBerry Messenger (BBM).

Will other countries do the same? It's pretty disturbing for me as a BlackBerry user, as I fear if my country regulator takes this opportunity to do the same move after investing people's money. UAE telecommunication companies already got back their investment back plus high profits from first year, that's why they didn't do any fuss and don't forget they are owned by the government.
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